Friendship while adulting

One of the difficult things about adulting is honestly how we’d maintain a friendship when they’re no longer a daily part of you lives—when you don’t see each other as often as before. I was just watching a video about ambivalent relationships. These are relationships that you don’t understand your position with the person currently.…

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Why we fear uncertainties

Nobody likes uncertainties. Fear of the unknown they say. It’s only fair when we don’t feel the urgency to change because we fear of uncertainties. We create narratives and ideals in our heads but we are not willing to work for it. It’s because we’re lacking of a mission—a sense of direction of where we’re…

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Socialising is exhausting

Look, I love listening to stories from people. But I forgot how exhausting socialising can be… No matter how much I’ve grown, I will always be that socially awkward quiet girl in the corner. I will always be an introvert at heart who needs her time away from everything—literally from any human contact. Now it…

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